Gut feelings

A bright and crispy autumn day has turned into a day filled with rain and gloom within a matter of hours and back again. There are things to be done, ever urgent and important. But somehow my mind seems to be refusing to corporate. I sense that I need to be enjoying this moment because right now whatever I do will be a waste of time. There have been plenty of times in the recent past that I decided to neglect these gut feelings and just keep on doing whatever it is I felt I had to be doing. I thought I was moving forward, getting things done to achieve goals I had set for myself. Instead I was moving backwards as one thing after the other kept on going wrong. This happened too many times that I passionately started to believe that I’m being punished and was angry-disbelief as to why all is happening to me at this critical time. I wanted to quit and one afternoon I just left work, telling my workmates (half joking, half seriously) that I’m never coming back. 

I went home that afternoon, cooked a hearty meal, spent time with my pets running around the house and watched an old Hindi movie with SJ crying as always as the plot developed into some romantic-tragedy.  It seemed that, that was what I needed – merely to be human. 

It seems we try so hard to get things done, to achieve certain things that we THINK we have to achieve. All of this for what, I wonder? Right now I don’t have an answer to that question, other than that we are scared of what might happen if we do things any different. Instead of trying to find the answer, I’ve decided to accept whatever comes my way without judgment. The only thing I will ask of myself is to try my best and not try to anticipate or control the outcome. And most of all, I want to learn how to see something as-is and not label anything as ‘good’ or ‘bad’. Wouldn’t it be great to not have to think that every single thing that happened on a given day was ‘bad’ as opposed to ‘things that just happened’ cause that is the way life works? 

It is as if I was taught a lesson or two by some invisible force. Perhaps I was heading straight to some kind of mental breakdown with the incredible stress I’ve been experiencing (predominantly self created). But luckily I’ve had some good fortune to be differed back to a more balanced path.  It all came down to listening to my instincts and listening to those who cared about my well-being. As a result I’m feeling so much more ‘betterer’ (as my friend D would say). :)