Being REAL

For once I overcame the fear of doing what I ‘should’ be doing and did what my heart told me to do. For once I overcame the need to be socially correct and please everyone and put on a smile on my face when all I wanted to do was hide in a corner and feel the rawness in my heart. For once I expressed myself and did not give excuses, simply said what it is that matter to me. It felt good. For once my heart told me – ‘you listened’. This experience tells me how negligent I have been in being kind to myself. How long have I let my most essential self (my being) be unheard, unseen and unappreciated by me? It is meaningful to me that I was born on the day that is now referred to as the peace day. It’s meaningful to me because I believe in peace and I have always tried to find peace in my heart. Only lately I’m finding the courage to act on it because it means I need to break habits, displease people – most of all, it means being disapproved and not quite making people comfortable with my views and opinions. But, I have come to that point in life where I either embrace myself or kill myself (metaphorically of course). From this point onwards, I refuse to linger in the grey area of life for I have always longed to embrace the intricacies of my inner self and live life from a deep place. It was just that I was waiting for someone to give me permission, someone to say ‘It’s okay, be yourself, we still accept you”. At least now I know the problem. I am the problem. I get in my own way. How stupid is that. Ok let me stop with the self-criticism and just work on self-acceptance. Hopefully self-acceptance does not take another decade to achieve because I’m a bit slow – self ‘realisation’ took 30 years! Isn’t it true that first we need to create peace inside before we achieve world peace? This peace day, I make a promise to myself to be true, first to me and then to the world. Here’s to me – the real one that lost the away.